" Wow.... court is quite full today..." A statement i made this morning in front of a senior lawyer... and she said "today is friday... they are all here for their divorce petition". I turned my head and i saw someone very familiar walked in and she was shock to found me sitting in the court room... i asked her a stupid question "what matter do you have in here today?" Hoping the answer she gives can be something like, being a witness for a patient, etc..., but unfortunately, with hesitation, she told me she's there for divorce.
How much does a marriage cost these days i wonder.... it used to cost you a life time committment...but now, it can only last for days or 2 years...only. The senior lawyer later told me that divorcing someone or marrying someone for a year or two is just fine. Even her, she told me she advised her children to just go for marriage for temporary satisfaction. After all, to satisfy the thirst for sex should be the ultimate focus, more so if there's any other 'benefits' by getting married. After all, divorce is such a simple process and it only cost RM3k to 4k. That's how much it cost for a marriage.
The doctor i bumped into was borned on the 29 January 1977. She is a professional.... pretty, smart,nice... kadazan.. local.... and believe the moment she announced to everyone that she's getting married few years ago, it's like the best moment in her life, being loved, feeling good...excited, nice, happy, etcetc....she probably used a few months or years preparing for the big day...on the wedding day, it must be the best day in her life... with hiring the best photographer in the world, with best arrangement for everything, etc.... and now, just in few minutes time, your application for divorce was before a high court judge and he gives you order in terms on your application to divorce. Which one leaves them with stronger impact or memories? Marriage? Divorce?
My question is, what does marriage means these days and what is it foundation base on? Feeling? Or love? Or desire? Pride or happiness? Where is God in your marriage life? Is there God in the first place? Or just selfishness or self desire and self satisfaction?
Seriously, i am very sad to know someone i know got divorce today.. relationship can be so selfish and so meaningless these days...
- marriage-
How much does a marriage cost these days i wonder.... it used to cost you a life time committment...but now, it can only last for days or 2 years...only. The senior lawyer later told me that divorcing someone or marrying someone for a year or two is just fine. Even her, she told me she advised her children to just go for marriage for temporary satisfaction. After all, to satisfy the thirst for sex should be the ultimate focus, more so if there's any other 'benefits' by getting married. After all, divorce is such a simple process and it only cost RM3k to 4k. That's how much it cost for a marriage.
The doctor i bumped into was borned on the 29 January 1977. She is a professional.... pretty, smart,nice... kadazan.. local.... and believe the moment she announced to everyone that she's getting married few years ago, it's like the best moment in her life, being loved, feeling good...excited, nice, happy, etcetc....she probably used a few months or years preparing for the big day...on the wedding day, it must be the best day in her life... with hiring the best photographer in the world, with best arrangement for everything, etc.... and now, just in few minutes time, your application for divorce was before a high court judge and he gives you order in terms on your application to divorce. Which one leaves them with stronger impact or memories? Marriage? Divorce?
My question is, what does marriage means these days and what is it foundation base on? Feeling? Or love? Or desire? Pride or happiness? Where is God in your marriage life? Is there God in the first place? Or just selfishness or self desire and self satisfaction?
Seriously, i am very sad to know someone i know got divorce today.. relationship can be so selfish and so meaningless these days...
- marriage-
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