No one wins!

I think the decision made by the Archbishop/House of Bishops are quite fair.  But of course, besides me, no one else think it is fair.  hahaha.... people always think justice shall prevail and one party at least, shall feel happy about it.  Those of you who are litigant, you would probably agree with me that, every single time when the Court has given it's ruling/decision, none of the party is actually happy about it.  That's the fact.  Either you get sued or you are the one suing.  Either way, both parties are the losers.  The winner goes to the lawyers. hahahahaha... Yes.  There's not a single time, I see, even the winning party are happy about the decision a court ruled the case.  Or rather, if there's, it's only for a short period of time.  They will feel utterly sad when the lawyer start billing them for winning the case.  No one is a winner.  That's what I am trying to say.
If the matter of bishop has been submitted to the House of Bishops.  The decision was made and everyone should subject to the decision, including....the decision to close all the blogs.  It's not whether you like it or not. It's an issue of submission.  So what? If the referee on last night's match decided to send out a Liverpool player... you are not happy about it and you still have to follow the decision aren't you? Are you going to bring the referee to the Court of Law and sue him for sending the player out, which you think it's suppose to be given a yellow card instead of a red card?  Come on.. decision is out, it's time to learn how to submit yourself to the law/the decision.
Everyone is hurt. I cannot remember how many times I got hurt by bishop, my ministers, by people, but church members, by everyone... so what if you bring them to court?  What will you get at the end seriously? To be bishop? Do you seriously am thinking to be a bishop of diocese of sabah? If you are, then do you want another groups of people to do the same to you? Bring you to court whenever they feels like?
Let this be an end, I urge you all.  Where's the brotherly love that Jesus asked us to have?  So what if bishop made a mistake? Can you not love him anymore?  Is this the love Jesus ask you to demonstrates?  So what if these groups of people who are like cunning lions who brings everyone to the court? Can we love continue to love them?  So what if church is not loveable?  Church is not suppose to be lovable in the first place because it's a place only sinners will enter.  So, why can't we just stop and start loving each others again?
It's hard... but like I said, no one is winning.  Everyone is hurt.  We all are.  Therefore we need Jesus.
People, start focusing on Jesus, on God.  If you love your God, would you do anything to destroy His body? If you love your neighbours, would you use defamatory words on them? It's sad to realised, we have failed to acknowledged that we are not perfect.
We are not perfect.  That's why Jesus gave us commandment, to love our neighbours as ourselves.  It's one of the hardest lesson to learn.  It all starts with, our willingness to start working on it.
Yes.  No one wins! and no matter how far you bring this matter to, no one will wins still. So, don't waste time and energy (like i told some of my clients).
- No one wins! -