Thursday, April 27, 2006

BURNOUT IN LAWYER

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BURNOUT IN LAWYERS


by


Dr. Ian M. Chung

SUBJECT: Health and Medicine, Law Profession
Malaysia
Also found at [1995]4 CLJ cxiii (Dec)





Who would have thought it could happen to lawyers? You went into law with high hopes. You were entering a noble profession. You had the respect of the community. You had prospects of a good income. So you thought.


What is the reality today? The reality of course is that change is inevitable, but the change for lawyers is accelerating in a negative direction.


Burnout


Burnout was a trendy diagnosis for a condition suffered by health care professionals in the social and welfare fields. Nowadays anyone can burnout butchers, bakers, candlestick makers and even lawyers. The condition is characterised by frustration accompanied by a sense of hopelessness related to the professional life of the sufferer. In part, the condition is related to the expectation of the professional exceeding the possible outcome of the work. This is often in the context of a range of competing demands and expectations from the client, the philosophy of the professional body they belong to, consumer expectations, the rules and structure of the employing body, society's attitudes, and the resources available. Does this sound familiar?


Burnout and the law


The law is part boredom and part sheer stress. Under-stimulation or tedium is a stress itself and leaves as prone to distraction, avoidance and unnecessary omission and errors.


Then there are the constant interruptions - the incessant phone, the 'emergencies', the staff.


How many of us have developed a phone phobia? The very ring of the phone triggers a negative Pavlovian response of annoyance and frustration because it has come to mean another problem, another interruption, another emergency or complication.


As for the clients, they are at the same time a source of income and of annoyance. Someone we want to attract and avoid at the same time. How often do they expect the world but expect to pay nothing? How often do they expect to take no responsibility themselves, have no idea what they want, have unrealistic expectations, change their mind at the last moment? The matter gets delayed for a variety of reasons but who is blamed? How often the client appears to think that they are our only client and their case is the most urgent. Prioritising becomes determined by the perceived level of the crisis.


Then there are those areas of law where a high percentage of clients are litigious, where there is utter frustration due to the system and where remuneration is poor. How many of you dread the family law case? How many of you have decided not to do certain types of work?


Even your colleagues can become the source of stress due to their delays, the adversarial system, the deliberate game playing, the style of their professional competition.


The law course did not prepare you for dealing with these realities - consumer expectation, lawyer bashing by the media, communication with difficult clients, time management, financial and cost control, staff administration and technological changes.


Meanwhile practising certificate fees, LawCover, insurance, wages, rents, taxes, superannuation and the mortgage all have to be paid.


"There has to be an easier way to earn a living some of you begin to think."

Law as we knew is dead! In some respects this is a good thing but in others it is disastrous. What can we do about it? Many feel quite hopeless. Some burnout! Some smoulder along. Some dropout. Some survive.

What are the symptoms of burnout?


It feels like 'Mondayitis', seven days a week; there is moodiness and irritability, there is loss of interest, not only in work but more generally; sometimes there is an attempt to escape into sleep, food, drugs, alcohol, sex or some other diversion; anxiety or even panic disorders may appear; depression is more liable to occur. The sufferer feels trapped, they feel unable to find a solution to
their situation, they feel angered and they gradually decline into a sense of hopelessness and eventually helplessness. It seems to them no one understands, no one cares and everyone and everything is conspiring against them. Communications, personal and professional, deteriorate; as a result relationships deteriorate, quality of life deteriorates, professional performance deteriorates and risk of negligence claims increases.


Some readers would say "I'm not that bad!' I would certainly hope not because I have described the full clinical course of the condition of burnout, but I wonder how many of us are at the prodromal phase (or in the early stages) of the condition? The symptoms of the early stages are Mondayitis occurring on Sunday night, general ennui, impatience when things do not go exactly as you'd like, loss of interest in work, developing pre-occupations. You start to wish you were somewhere else and you look longingly at Amway or a McDonalds franchise, at an antique shop or coffee bar.


A spontaneous remission is usually the result of accidental discovery of meaning in one's work or in life, discovering a compelling interest or a purpose in life.


Do not wait for an accidental remission, take action. Early intervention is the only alternative to progression of the condition to dropout.


Surviving burnout


1. Care about what you do but not so much that you cannot detach when appropriate.
2. Develop a sense of mastery, by getting good at something that you like to do inside the profession and outside.
3. Concentrate on doing well what you like to do and let the rest take care of itself.
4. Live a balanced life and develop living skills – get fit physically, emotionally and spiritually (NOT necessarily religiously).
5. Develop supportive relationships and networks professionally and personally.
6. Come to know and appreciate your strengths, come to accept and guard against your weaknesses.
7.Be aware of the early warning signs of burnout and intervene early - just take a step, make a start.
8. Be prepared to accept help if you sense danger signals.
9.Beware of maladaptive stress release e.g. bingeing on food, alcohol or drugs; compulsive gambling or sex.
10. Learn and practice stress management yourself.
11. Life by the serenity prayer. For those who are not familiar with this prayer, it goes like this:
a) God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
b) The courage to change the things that I can;
c) And the wisdom to know the difference;

Remember, God helps those who help themselves.


It took me some 30 years of professional life to begin to live by these philosophies but, take heart, burnout is not inevitable. I have survived - so can you. Indeed, I do enjoy my work, psychotherapy; I have vicariously lived 1000 lives, and I acknowledge the lesson of these lives that I have just shared with you.


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Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Weird Encounter !!

MANY CONGRATULATION TO BISHOP ALBERT VUN CHEONG FUI!!!

Well, it's a tiring day. I was in court this morning. It's not the court duty that made me feel tired. It's probably the stress that made me have a few sleepless nights that caused all the tiredness. Matters in court today went very well and easy as all my matters were before this SAR (Senior Assistant Registrar) whom by now, know me quite well. I was thinking to take a breakfast and relax a while before going back to office but just before I about to leave, I met an ex-colleague with his client. They sat down and we chatted for a while and this client of his started to 'prophesies'. He started to told us that he receive 'something' from somewhere then and by that, he must tell us what was given to him. So, he started to prophesies on my ex-colleague and talked a bit about me (I didn't bother him much and he didn't want to talk about me). As I know this ex-colleague quite well, we both knew that whatever he told, it's quite true and after he has spoken about the past, he went on with the future. I didn't listen much but I know my ex-colleague believed every single words he has spoken.
The whole thing, it just reminded me about one thing: The Satan is very smart and cunning. I believe, this 'client' is not the only one the Satan uses.
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When I returned to my office. I sent an email to my boss (immediate boss) with regards to one of the court matter tomorrow. I drafted something for him as requested. 10 minutes after that, my senior boss called me in into her room which located just next to me. She asked me what's the case about, and so on. And she commented on my drafting, etc. There and then, she told me that, she can receive every single email we all received or sent. I saw a couple of my friends' emails of course. And she said: "Ask your friends not to email you unnecessary emails". hahaha... I think she was a bit troubled by our emails. We were talking about Faith, about God, about Prayer and others and I guess, she cannot stand anymore. Well, I found that, I couldn't really respect her as my boss. I know she is a very capable person and lawyer, but I just simple can't respect her as my boss. The main reason is that she didn't even know how to respect others. I really hate the way she disregards about others and start smoking in front of me. I was standing next to her as requested by her and she simply just pick up a cigarette and start smoking. Of course another reason is that she read our personal emails and so on.
- weird encournter -

Saturday, April 22, 2006

Overcome

Many people tend not to know how to handle their own emotions at most time. Some, have difficulties in dealing with stress. Some, with tiredness. Some, with sadness. Some, with depression. Some, even with happiness. I, tend to have difficulties dealing with FEAR. I know most of you do not believe what I am trying to tell you. For those of you who know me well, you thought I am fearless. But to be honest, I have this fear in me when I need to speak up, to do presentation, to stand in front of people and so on. OK OK.... I know some of you started to say I am telling the lie now. But I am serious. I always feel fearful.
I still remember when I was young, almost everything I feel fearful about. Noise, things, matters, whatever you can think of. I can even tell you I have difficulties going to a shop to buy stuffs. I scare. I have no idea what I scare of fearful upon. I just feel fearful at all time.
However, as the whole family knew that this is my weaknesses, they trained me up and builded my weaknesses up. I still remember how much efforts my parents and my brother did to me. To be honest, it is not something I can bear. NOPE... it's something that's born within me and that I couldn't chance it, but ... I can improve it. I might not be able to wipe off the fearfulness 100%. But I can tell you, I can at least reduce it. It takes time. I went through training not only as leader, but also commander and other roles that made me finally developed myself to be less fearful to things around me.
I was shock when my dad and mom said they can't seems to understand why I was so daring to stand in front of the court and speak to the Judges. Well, to them, both of them are not someone who is brave and daring, but why am I so different from them. Well, I guess the only explanation is that because I CHOOSE to get myself trained and do better and has less fear.
I believe it is a choice and I believe, time also is a major factor that will ease us and build us up. I asked God a few times why am I not born as bold as others? Why am I like this and that. But I guess, God has His purpose of doing so.
I know someone out there has difficulties handling your sadness. It is not easy to handle. But everyone of us must understand that, we do have choice to feel happy also. Some of you are feeling discouraged today. Why not choose to think otherwise? etc. etc....
Over these few days, I received many news, some very discouraged, some very sad, some made me worried, some make me angry, and so on. .... I am asking myself if this is normal to this world, to everyone. A friend told me, I experienced so much emotions at a time because I know too many people. haha.... funny....!!! But I guess that's why sometimes, you realise I can't adjust my facial expression to whatever you said immediately. hahahahaha....
Well, ... friends, you have a choice..........
- overcome -