It's a situation a friend encounter today that makes me think when was the last time I had a bad day. Oh well, ... as you know, I always encounter a bad day once every forth night. haha.... and therefore, I am kind of get used to it. Well, don't get me wrong. I am not saying I don't feel bad when it comes my way. I am just saying, when days like that came around, I just have to remind myself that it's just this other day, nothing that I can control, nothing that I can do to change it and at the same time, it will not last for long.
When was the last time I had a really bad day? One of this year while I was having my CLP exam, I think. From the first day it started, I fell sick and thereafter, I couldn't even sleep almost EVERY SINGLE MOMENT, and during the exam, there's this bomb scares and after the exam, I stepped on a fresh dog shit, etc. That wasn't really a bad DAY in fact... came to think of it, it was more than that... more than 24 hours... goodness...it last about a month in fact and I remember at the end of the exam, I was quite sure that I won't get through it. Bad year follows after that... with so many things happen, etc. etc. (Don't ask me what happen. some of you still remember donating maggie and bread to me).
A friend reminded me few days ago that people need one or two of those days to grow up so that they are able to handle different situations and it is so happen that, me (I know my God loves me more than anyone else), just happen to be selected specially to handle all situations (encounter more bad days then anyone else) so that I can understand situation that people around me facing. What do I mean? Give you an example. It's weird that my grandmother, my father than I suffer no headache ever. So, in a way, I don't really know what exactly is headache. Due to that, I have very limited understanding of what headache is. So, when someone tells me that he/she is having headache, seriously, I have no idea how to help and what to do about it. If only those who suffer headache before will understand how to deal with it. Headache is not very good. It's bad to have headache, but we can't really say, it's bad because with it, you would be able to understand other's situation. So, bad days sometimes just let us grow a little big wiser.
So, bad day is really not that bad after all... yes?
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